Lessons
Dad advice: Never waste a trip
“Grab something! Never waste a trip!"
Heather
Lessons
Help a girl out
I was helping a girl who was uncertain and perhaps not getting the kind of guidance she needed by the absence of another person familiar with feminine nuance. And maybe I planted a seed in her mind that she has choices in how she expresses herself.
IMO
What's self-love (plus the patriarchy and nervous system) got to do with it?
Some bullshit I've heard my entire life was that in order to truly love someone, you have to love yourself first.
IMO
Going analog-ish
Like most humans, I embraced digital technology when it became mainstream in the 90's.
Lessons
2025: Best year of my life
Many things changed for me in 2025. IYKYK. I'm not sure what lit the fuse, maybe all the things. The time seemed right for me to have an outlet like this blog, so here we are.