Dad advice: Never waste a trip
“Grab something! Never waste a trip!"
Help a girl out
I was helping a girl who was uncertain and perhaps not getting the kind of guidance she needed by the absence of another person familiar with feminine nuance. And maybe I planted a seed in her mind that she has choices in how she expresses herself.
What's self-love (plus the patriarchy and nervous system) got to do with it?
Some bullshit I've heard my entire life was that in order to truly love someone, you have to love yourself first.
Going analog-ish
Like most humans, I embraced digital technology when it became mainstream in the 90's.
2025: Best year of my life
Many things changed for me in 2025. IYKYK. I'm not sure what lit the fuse, maybe all the things. The time seemed right for me to have an outlet like this blog, so here we are.